Wednesday, April 15, 2009

"Forever" by: Judy Blume

I recently found a book that was written by one of my favorite authors as a kid. This book is called Forever and was written by one of my all time favorite authors, Judy Blume. I was excited to see that she had written books on more of my level of reading. The book, Forever, tells of a girl named Katherine who struggles between finding the meaning between first love and true love.

Katherine is a senior in high school and stuck with what she plans to do with her life after high school. Her best friend, Erica takes her to a new year’s party where she meets a guy named Michael and immediately can’t stop thinking about him. There was something different about him, and she liked it. After the party, Katherine and Michael start to hang out together and eventually are inseparable. They have a very unique relationship and spend as much time as possible together. Even though Katherine and Michael hadn’t been together that long, they knew it was serious until things took a drastic turn. Katherine got the news that she would be working at a summer camp for seven weeks in New Hampshire and Michael had a job in North Carolina. When the time came that the two had to leave each other, they knew it would be hard, but they tried hard to stay together even though they were so far apart. Katherine knew she still loved Michael, but new feelings are aroused when she goes to camp and meets Theo, the tennis instructor. Katherine is stuck between her feelings for Michael and her feelings for Theo and has to make a decision which one she would rather be with.

In this novel, Judy Blume puts the reader in Katherine’s place so it is possible to feel what she is going through and to know how it feels to be in these types of situations. I think this book is a very good description of what a lot of younger people go through. We have no way of knowing that we are really in love if it’s only our first time. Katherine struggles because she says she has never felt this way before, and she would do anything for it to stay like this forever. It becomes very hard though when Michael and her are split up and Katherine is not with Michael as often. She begins to realize that maybe her parents were right and that there is more to life. I think Judy Blume explains that we shouldn’t get caught up on one thing or person, but to live life to the fullest and don’t shut ourselves away from open opportunities. All Katherine cared about was being with Michael and spending every minute they could together. When Katherine finds Theo who makes her feel like a completely different person, she knows she was wrong for shutting herself away to one person. Katherine realizes that she is too young to know what true love is, and that she has all of her life before her to find that one person, who maybe isn’t her first love, but her true love.

I would recommend this book because it shows that we shouldn’t focus our lives on one thing, but look more at the big picture and be open to opportunities. Once Katherine realizes she wants more for her life, it is too hard to make the change because she has already made a promise. This book is very informational and also inspirational because it teaches the reader a lesson. Judy Blume says there is a first for everything and we should always be open to new ideas. This book is also very entertaining and keeps the reader flipping the page until the very end to discover the love Katherine and Michael say they will share forever.

6 comments:

  1. I got excited when I saw the author was Judy Blume, because she was also one of my favorite authors when I was younger. The novel seems totally different from the books she used to write. I would be very interested in reading this novel because it seems like I could relate to it very well. As a teenage a girl, I understand how it is to feel like you are in love and want to spend every minute with that one person you are with. I also agree with this novel that some couples get too serious with each other and missing out on all the interesting things they could be experiencing.

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  2. This novel seems unlike any book Judy Bloom has written. I also used to read her books all the time when I was younger, and I like that Forever seems like the kind of novel a teenage girl could relate to. The book seems like a definite page turner, and I think I would be very interested in reading it. It seems like I could definitely relate to this novel because most teenage girls experience the conflict of distinguishing between first love and true love. I know it can be hard not to get wrapped up in one thing, so I’m interested in finding out how Katherine deals with the situation.

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  3. I really can’t relate to what you all are talking about, in the sense that I’m not a sixteen year old girl, but I feel like writing a comment on something I can’t relate to because I’m looking forward to the challenge.
    I completely agree with Neelie, relationships at a young age can ruin a person because a person can get so caught up in a relationship that usually isn’t what that person thinks the relationship is. I find that there is a serious problem with first love for many people. Many times people think that they are in love when in actuality; it is the idea of “true love”, that a person is truly in love with. Then a person starts convincing themselves that they are in “true love” with some one that they aren’t in love with. Romeo and Juliet are a great example of this. I do believe in true love, but I also believe that the turtle that is slow and steady wins the race. Neelie, I love you.

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  4. The description you wrote makes me think of a roller coaster of love. I am really curious to find out who she picks, Theo or Michael. I might be wrong but haven't they made a movie about this a few years back, just using different names? I think the fact that Katherine spent almost all her time with Michael, she wasn't able to open her eyes and see whats around her, but again i could be wrong since i haven't read this book yet. The book seems interesting, so i guess ill find out myself when i read it in hopefully a week or two.

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  5. When I was growing up, Judy Blume was one of my favorite authors. I especially loved her Fudge series, and judging from Ashley's blog it sounds as though I would enjoy reading Forever as well. Katherine’s circumstances are very relative to any teenage girl's life. Teenagers struggle with separating petty crushes and strong, deep relationships and it sounds as though Blume illustrates the difference between the two in Katherine’s relationships with the two boys, Michael and Theo. I am pleased to hear Judy Blume writes not only children’s novels but also novels for teenagers, and I will definitely read Forever.

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  6. I agree with all of you guys, Judy Bloom was also one of my favorites as a kid and this book sounds great, and a much higher level of reading as Ashley said. I think this book is a good choice for our age of girls because many can relate to the ups and downs of love and heartbreak. Everything in this book is so realistic and does actually happen, which is what made me connect to it and post this comment. I think that many girls could learn from this book and learn about life and themselves. I haven't read this but I plan to borrow it from Ashley now. I can't wait to find out what Katherine decides to do. :)

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